Internet urges 31-year-old to break up with red flag wife after she uses data recovery software to find deleted photos of his exes: "She's upset that you werent a single, miserable wreck before you met?"

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    My Wife (27F) Violated My (31M) Privacy and Now Blames Me for My Past

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    While I was at work, my wife took my personal USB sticks without my permission. She downloaded a special data recovery program and retrieved deleted photos of my ex. These were completely normal anything inappropriate. pictures, no n
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    For the past two days, she has been bringing it up and accusing me, saying that I had multiple relationships and looked happy in those pictures. I have made it clear to her that our marriage is the
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    happiest relationship I have ever had and that she shouldn't compare herself to my past. She already knew that I had previous relationships before we got married. But now, she is blaming me for my past, even though I haven't done anything wrong.
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    What bothers me the most is that she violated my privacy. This is not the first time something like this has happened. In the past, she has also checked my phone without my permission while I was in the shower, looking through my messages. I already told her back then that I found this completely unacceptable, and it even led to arguments between us.
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    I have never cheated on my wife, not even once, nor have I ever even thought about it. Now, after what she did with my USB sticks, I confronted her again and told her that this was a serious violation of my privacy. But instead of understanding, she told me that she would do it again.
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    How would you handle this situation? Because I feel deeply disrespected and don't know how to move forward.
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    KrKrKr004 How would I handle it? Tell her that she can play unhinged Super Spy with someone else when I hand over the divorce papers.
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    Tired Retired Nurse This. I would be calling divorce attorney.
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    MckittenMan I would divorce her because she is unhinged. You can't even have deleted photos without being put on blast.
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    Those pictures were deleted. And she used a data recovery program to retrieve them, then got mad at you for existing at some point in history?
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    TF is that? That's mental intuition sh. Absolutely nothing for her to be mad about. Its insane to use data recovery.
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    dosiejo monk before no bc recovering deleted photos and getting mad that OP wasn't an aromantic v he met her is absolutely batshit insane behavior
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    TheRealCarpeFelis Not only mad at him for having existed before meeting her, but for having been happy in previous relationships! That's next-level insecurity and/or narcissism on her part.
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    Wise_woman_1 This is off the deep end. I can only assume she has been cheated on in prior relationships and is insecure. Is it possible she has something to hide and is therefore projecting her guilt and picking fights? This woman needs therapy, stat!
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    NYChockey14 She needs therapy for her insecurity. It's only going to get worse. I'd say you need marriage counseling and even consider separation if it doesn't get better
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    Deschain8 This is the first sane answer I've read. Seriously everyone who just says divorce is childish. Good options with separation being the last resort. I fear most of these answers come from young or unmarried people. I think most people are forgetting how much sue means to you and how it's the happiest you've ever been.
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    Rip_Dirtbag Just want to make sure I have this right. You had deleted pictures of you and an ex where you looked happy. Your wife went to a lot of sneaky effort to access pictures you had already deleted,
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    non of which were scandalous. And now your wife is upset with you over the fact that you weren't a single, miserable wreck before the two of you met? Is that the gist of it?
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    Tortured Poet_ . You had a life before her and everyone has pictures of their exes. She needed a recovery program just to see them, because the images were no longer there. What in the actual f . It looks like she's looking for reasons to break up with you or something. This is psychotic behavior.
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    Lilac-Roses-Sunsets Divorce her. The odds are SHE is cheating or is thinking of cheating herself. Your wife is wacky.

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